Patient #48273 Posted April 4, 2022 Posted April 4, 2022 You can vote for the song you like more or based on which is better specifically as a pop punk song. Voter’s choice. No minimum post count required; anyone can vote, but one person = one vote (i.e., no sock accounts). Voting closes at 3:30pm Eastern Time on Wednesday, April 6th. If you haven’t heard the songs in a long time (or ever), consider checking them out before voting.
Kay Posted April 4, 2022 Posted April 4, 2022 Hands Down is too happy for me. Konstantine also mentions JEW and that makes me giggle.
Patient #48273 Posted April 4, 2022 Author Posted April 4, 2022 A straight girl who tortured me absolutely loved Hands Down, so that makes me want to vote against it, although I do think it's the better song.
Ghent Posted April 4, 2022 Posted April 4, 2022 Both great, but Konstantine has to be a contender to take the whole thing. That was THE emo go to song for me.
Ghent Posted April 4, 2022 Posted April 4, 2022 @Patient #48273 Just a heads up, the Konstantine video you linked to isn't the actual song. 1
Kay Posted April 4, 2022 Posted April 4, 2022 26 minutes ago, Patient #48273 said: A straight girl who tortured me absolutely loved Hands Down, so that makes me want to vote against it, although I do think it's the better song. I so want to know more. A girl who ruined me told me TBS’s MakeDamnSure was her song for me and I will admit that may be one of the reasons I hate them.
Patient #48273 Posted April 4, 2022 Author Posted April 4, 2022 2 minutes ago, Kay said: I so want to know more. It was just the classic close friendship gone awry story. After I told her I had feelings for her, she initially said she didn't feel the same way and I said I needed time/space, but she wouldn't let me have that (until things got much messier months later) and then said she was confused and didn't know how she felt and it was years ago, but it's still awful lol. 1 1
Kay Posted April 4, 2022 Posted April 4, 2022 22 minutes ago, Patient #48273 said: It was just the classic close friendship gone awry story. After I told her I had feelings for her, she initially said she didn't feel the same way and I said I needed time/space, but she wouldn't let me have that (until things got much messier months later) and then said she was confused and didn't know how she felt and it was years ago, but it's still awful lol. Ah nothing worse than straight girls who like the attention and power. Had quite a few of those friendships back in the day. Was basically assaulted by one. did you remain friends or is that completely dead and buried?
Patient #48273 Posted April 4, 2022 Author Posted April 4, 2022 8 minutes ago, Kay said: Ah nothing worse than straight girls who like the attention and power. Had quite a few of those friendships back in the day. Was basically assaulted by one. did you remain friends or is that completely dead and buried? Jesus, that's awful. And we're not really friends anymore. We kind of tried to be friends again for a while after everything settled down, but it was never the same. We still follow each other on social media and occasionally like each other's posts and very occasionally message each other, but that's it.
Kay Posted April 4, 2022 Posted April 4, 2022 17 minutes ago, Patient #48273 said: Jesus, that's awful. And we're not really friends anymore. We kind of tried to be friends again for a while after everything settled down, but it was never the same. We still follow each other on social media and occasionally like each other's posts and very occasionally message each other, but that's it. I probably worded that poorly. it wasn’t anything traumatising, She did a lot of getting drunk and forcably kissing me when I told her no and would push her away. Not a shock that she’s not invited to my wedding though lol I guess if it’s not actively damaging you it’s pointless to block them, is it still weird for you when they message?
Patient #48273 Posted April 4, 2022 Author Posted April 4, 2022 5 minutes ago, Kay said: I probably worded that poorly. it wasn’t anything traumatising, She did a lot of getting drunk and forcably kissing me when I told her no and would push her away. Not a shock that she’s not invited to my wedding though lol I guess if it’s not actively damaging you it’s pointless to block them, is it still weird for you when they message? That's still super fucked up. And no, it's fine most of the time. We were really good friends and we still have a lot in common, so it's nice to chat now and then and see what she's up to. Thank you to everyone who chose to read through today's Lesbian Processing (brought to you by Dashboard Confessional). 1 1
Kay Posted April 4, 2022 Posted April 4, 2022 18 minutes ago, Patient #48273 said: That's still super fucked up. And no, it's fine most of the time. We were really good friends and we still have a lot in common, so it's nice to chat now and then and see what she's up to. Thank you to everyone who chose to read through today's Lesbian Processing (brought to you by Dashboard Confessional). I legit forgot where we were haha 1
Jan Mortensen Posted April 4, 2022 Posted April 4, 2022 9 minute emo song? Get fucked. Dashboard it is.
Jan Mortensen Posted April 4, 2022 Posted April 4, 2022 I guess that song is much better though overall and feels pretty solid emo sound actually. Dashboard just feels too poppy for me.
Cheerios4u98 Posted April 6, 2022 Posted April 6, 2022 Dashboard is so good. They're one of my favorite bands that I almost never listen to. It's weird. But then whenever I do decide to randomly listen to them I'm like "oh yeah, this is why I loved this band." They're also probably one of the best live bands I've seen. Hands Down is their best song. One of my favorite songs ever, even if I usually forget that Dashboard exists and rarely listen to them or this song. 2
Patient #48273 Posted April 6, 2022 Author Posted April 6, 2022 8 hours ago, Cheerios4u98 said: Dashboard is so good. They're one of my favorite bands that I almost never listen to. It's weird. But then whenever I do decide to randomly listen to them I'm like "oh yeah, this is why I loved this band." They're also probably one of the best live bands I've seen. Hands Down is their best song. One of my favorite songs ever, even if I usually forget that Dashboard exists and rarely listen to them or this song. Yeah, I find I have to be in a very specific mood to listen to Dashboard, but when I am in that mood, they're absolutely perfect. 2
Champ182 Posted April 6, 2022 Posted April 6, 2022 Does their newer stuff hold up? I absolutely loved everything up to A Mark A Mission A Brand A Scar but then literally haven't listened to a single album since then. Like @Cheerios4u98 said they just kinda disappeared from my mind haha.
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