thongrider

So you're agreeing they were having negative feelings in the period 2002-2007? Can you also then agree that mocking Jan for posting that was shitty?

You're arguing against a strawman.

That's because Jan was saying what the band members were saying.

He threatened me a year ago because of DJing of all things. I decided not to engage with him after that. He said some ridiculous thing and I had to keep myself from commenting until he attacked me again and there was no point in not engaging anymore because he went off on me regardless.

I'm getting kind of tired of this discussion. How about we stop the threats and just agree that we both probably misunderstood each other and made a big deal out of nothing? And that you're into sunny weather and I'm not and that's fine. And then you delete your posts about people that disagree with you comitting suicide. Then we just end the discussion here and try not to argue for a while?

I didnt take issue with you saying they were enjoying their lives. I took issue with you mocking the idea that they were going through some shitty things (something that doesn't contradict them also having good times). If you believe that they could be going through grief, why did you feel the need to mock that?

The conversation is literally there. I have been super clear that it's possible they were going through many emotions (positive and negative) that period of time. If you have misunderstood me, ok, don't tell people to kill themselves, please, also don't play victim after you do.

It's possible they were having a great time and very likely that they did. I have been stating this for ten or more pages, yet you keep on arguing that I'm not saying that. I should be allowed to defend myself against that without being threatened.

Why do you get to say you know their lives better than them?

In a pizza place? Also, why are you stealing Oliver's stick from three years ago?

If someone goes through something shitty and someone states that fact and you mock the person stating the fact, you're also mocking the person going through the shitty thing. You don't get to play the victim here.

The only objective fact here is that blink were going through something shitty, and you felt the need to mock it. Do you seriously think you can just be an asshole and get people off your back by threatening to be more of an asshole?

I'm not gonna let you get away with being a prick this time. Be accountable for your actions.

You have harassed me for years. You don't get to set the terms in this convo.

I have harassed you?

But you were the contrarian here. You were stealing my schtick. I take other people being bad contrarians very seriously. Especially when you're into sunshine. A good contrarian hates the sun.

But I've never said that. So stop gaslighting. Just admit you were wrong for mocking Jan (and blink).

What was your reason for mocking Jan's post? Do you seriously dont think blink are able to feel grief or did you interpret Jan's post as him saying they were only feeling grief 24 7 for five years?

I'm not going to resort to any of the bullshit you're pulling just because you can't admit you were wrong. All you have to do is read Mark's book or interviews. Jan was basically stating a fact, you decided to mock him and start gaslighting.

I didn't mean jealous of their success. Why wouldn't you want to be famous?

I am sorry you're going through whatever you're going through. And I'm sorry I called you jealous of them. That wasn't fair. I don't think mocking someone for going through hard times is ok. And I don't want to mock you if you are, I also don't want to weaponize it in any way. I admit that mocking someone who is struggling struck a nerve with me. Maybe my response did the same with you, I dunno. Maybe your comment wasn't malicious, I dunno that either.

You mocked Jan for saying things you can find in interviews with the band. That was my issue.

When did Jan (or I) saying they weren't enjoying life?

I stand by what I've said all along. They could've both been enjoying life and going through sad feelings.